How to Raise Confident and Well-Rounded Children
by Kristin Louis
June 18, 2021
As parents, we all want our kids to grow into happy, healthy, and well-adjusted adults. But parenting is seldom easy. There is so much conflicting parenting advice out there, so how are we supposed to know what’s best for our kids? What steps should we be taking to nurture our children into autonomous adults who are confident in their skin and motivated to do good?
At The Open School, we know parents play a key role in providing an environment in which children can thrive, grow, and discover themselves. Often, this means taking a back seat and letting your children drive—figuratively speaking, of course! Let’s explore some simple ways to nurture independence and confidence in your children.
Support Their Passions
Every child is different, and so too are their tastes and passions. Nurturing the unique interests of your children is important for establishing their sense of self.
- Instead of guiding your children towards certain sports or hobbies, give them the freedom to explore what interests them.
- Inspire your children to dream big!
- Display the steps you’re taking to go after your own dreams and goals, whether this means picking up a new hobby or continuing your education.
Nurture their Independence
Encouraging the development of independence from a young age is important for building self-confidence and ensuring your kids have the tools they need to thrive as autonomous adults.
- Let your kids make mistakes and don’t jump to their rescue when they’re facing a challenging situation.
- From a young age, encourage your kids to do things for themselves—even if the results are messy at first.
- Assign your children age-appropriate responsibilities so they can contribute to the common good of your family.
- Let your kids engage in self-directed play and explore their creative pursuits.
Show Respect to Your Kids
Displaying respect for your children is the best way to gain their respect in return. When your children feel heard and acknowledged, they will learn to value themselves and others.
- When your child is talking, give them the attention you expect from them when you’re speaking.
- Try not to coerce your kids to do things they don’t want to do, even if you have the best of intentions. Respect their decision to say “no.”
- Be careful not to laugh at your kids. If you’re not laughing with them, your laughter can hurt.
Treating your kids with respect and dignity is crucial for nurturing the development of confidence and independence throughout the years. Let them explore, make mistakes, and chase their interests. Your children really do know what’s best for themselves!
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